How To Talk Dirty

You've heard it before. All most guys need to get turned on is for you to show up naked with a six-pack of beer. We might be making huge generalizations for the sake of comedy with that statement, but more times than not, there is a lot of truth in it.

But if you really want to drive your man wild, there are a few tips that might help you become less tongue-tied in the bedroom. You don't have to talk like a trucker or be sexually experienced to be able to say things that will drive your man crazy. All you have to do is put the focus on his needs, wants and he'll go out of his mind. A little dirty talk can go a long way, and it's a great way to make sure that he pays attention to your desires.

I can say anything 

Promise, Word, Honor

A promise is a commitment by someone to do or not do something.

That's right. Even if you don't say "I promise", agreeing to do something is making a promise. You're giving your word and your word should be your bond.

This society doesn't give a damn about honor any more. They have no problem saying one thing then doing another.

Proud of My Girls

This entire season makes me so thankful for what I have, especially since the last 2 years I had so much less. Today I realized that even though I know my children (two girls) could be so much better... that they could be so much worse.

A Lost Friendship

There was something that wasn't quite right. She'd felt off for the last two days and she couldn't quite put her finger on why... She'd blamed the book she'd just finished. She thought that it was the poor ending but as she laid in bed with nothing to read and only her thoughts for sound it gave her brain more than enough time to maul over what was missing.

Thanksgiving

Since Thanksgiving is around us. I figured I would write a blog about what I am thankful for. I believe gratitude is one of the strongest things to make us a better person.
 

The Last 4 Days

This weekend was supposed to be full of good news and new beginnings, but it fell flat and expensive.

Waiting and Filling Time

I am a woman of planning and waiting. Sometimes I feel like that's all life is. We make plans for ourselves as early as 5 years old then spend the rest of our life. Re-planning, omitting what we either decide doesn't suit us any longer or what we deem is an unrealistic goal. Then wait, wait and wait some more for our plans to either fail or come through.

No Tolerance For Liars

I don't tolerate liars. Nope, nope, nope. If someone lies to me I have no problem with completely eliminating them from my life without even batting an eye. I don't care what the truth is, we can work past it. Lie to me? You're dead.  This is especially true when someone offers to do something and says its no big deal. If it was no big deal to do, then its no big deal to cancel... why lie? Not to mention if you're lying about tiny things how can I trust you with things that mater?

Old Life & New Life

I saw something today that caught my eye. It reminded me of my old career, my place of employment, the close friends I had, the life I was creating for my family, the life I once lived. I reminisced for a little while about my "old life". It put such a smile on my face. A happiness in my heart to remember. It is very interesting to me how I can feel so strongly about my "old life" and yet thoroughly enjoy and love my "new life".

I have the power

Over the last week, I have been conversing with a local photographer who shoots more erotic and pornographic material. He has the technique but I require more. If I'm just looking for a camera man, there are multiple options at my disposal which is the perk of having been in the adult industry for over 3 years now. This photographer had contacted me over ModelMayhem last year and we'd set up tentative plans, however before secure and confirmed plans could be set up. He blocked me without reason or explanation.

A few weeks ago he added me on Fetlife. I messaged him and questioned this. He replied,  

It's the most wonderful time of the year

Its my absolute favorite time of the year!!! I just love chilly weather. I love being able to cozy up in sweaters, leggings and scarves.

MGF Chat

I told myself a while ago that I would only post blogs when I have something true, helpful, inspirational, necessary or kind to blog about.
But lately I can't think of anything

MyGirlFund has been getting on my nerves lately... or more correctly the guys on MyGirlFund who abuse the chat feature are getting to me lately.

Don't Worry

Over the last few days, I've had to post messages on Social Media alerting people to the fact that I will not be on Chaturbate as planned/promised. A few people have questioned what is going on, and because I dont like being a sob story I will post it here to direct those that care and save everyone else the headache so ... here it goes!

Cultural Appropriation

Cultural appropriation is the adoption of some specific elements of one culture by a different cultural group. It describes acculturation or assimilation, but can imply a negative view towards acculturation from a minority culture by a dominant culture

The term “cultural appropriation” is sometimes used to describe the act of borrowing aspects of another culture. For many people, the concept of cultural appropriation is a very charged issue, and passionate debates about cultural appropriation can be found scattered across the Internet. Some people feel that the term “cultural appropriation” is rather pejorative, making it difficult to discuss the very real issues associated with borrowing material from other cultures in a measured, balanced way.

Blood is thicker than water

The last 5 days have been horrible. Normally I'm not a blogger about "me" but I need this. I need to get my thoughts straight and kind of let out all of this sadness. One my close friends has cancer, been dealing with it for a VERY long time... lots of things are changing and I wish I could be there. He's one of the people that helped build my career and has really helped keep me sane through some hard times.

If I had $700 right now I'd be hoping on a plane to go across country to be there. I'm a firm believer that when shit like this is going on you need to have people that love you near.

“The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb”

The last week everything around me is "this is the bad news and there's NOTHING you can do to fix it" and it seems like if I had more money that I could at least be able to distract myself or others .... It always comes down to money, doesn't it?

EdenFantasys: Little Daisy

OK, I'm going to start this blog by telling you that I was VERY excited about Little Daisy when I ordered her from EdenFantasys. I figured she'd be perfect to take anywhere I wanted to go and when taken apart no one would know what she was. It was perfect.

EdenFantasys: Fishnet Suspender Pantyhose

Pantyhose... but kind of not!
Are you scratching your head?

Well, its because I have a hard time saying these stockings are pantyhose since their design comes across more as no slip stockings.

Yup! You read correctly these stockings are fantastic and definitely worth the FIVE DOLLARS EdenFantasy is charging. What an awesome deal, right?

The Difference Between Love & Sex

Sex is a phyiscal need. Love is a mental want.

There are a lot of difference between love and sex. Love is an emotion of personal attachment and strong affection. In philosophical context, the term love is a virtue showing all of human affection, compassion and kindness. In religious context, the term love is not just a virtue but is the foundation for all golden rule or divine law and basis for all being.

Aggressive Female Behavior

Aggression in females may be different than anger in males, especially in children. Aggression refers to the intentional infliction of harm on one person by another. It can be direct, including verbal or physical aggression, or indirect

EdenFantasy: Marble Enhancement Set

Oh yea, we're returning to the Mighty Marble cock ring... but this time we've got the marble enhancement set for it which is what we are really reviewing today!

Product Review: Fantasy Tickler



When I first got the Fantasy Tickler I thought it was going to be larger than it was, but to my delight it wasn't, giving me an excellent vibrating anal toy.

Update

So I just wrote an entire blog that was mostly whining and literally had to delete it all when I re-read through it. YUCK!

Love Without Trust

People constantly say that you cant have love without trust. This thought has destroyed some relationships when the truth of the matter is that it is possible to love someone you dont trust. The lack of trust is just a point of insecurity and like all points of insecurity it can be conquered.

Turn Her On

You've got a good idea how to touch and caress a woman once she's in your bed, but for you it's getting a woman into your bed that seems to be the big hurdle.




No one wants to hear about your ex-girlfriend and how she's going to be nominated for sainthood. We also don't want to know that you think she's the real-life version of Cruella De Ville. If you're over 35 and still living at home with your mom, that's a big red flag for her and no one wants a boyfriend with bad table manners. They're so easy to learn.

But what turns a woman on... the answers are surprisingly simple.

Pony Play

Ponyplay is a combination of BDSM and erotic role play where the bottom assumes the role of an equid and becomes a ponygirl (or ponyboy). Ponyplay can, and often does, combine many aspects of BDSM. Ponyplay usually involves dominance and submission, and some amount of bondage and discipline. A schematic of the two main ways a human becomes a pony (this is meant to illustrative, but it is generally valid for nearly all types of ponyplay):

EdenFantasys: Cock Ring

As promised I'm revisiting the EdenFantasys cock ring and to my great surprise when this free toy showed up and was removed from its plastic sleeve... it actually worked!

A Good Father

A good father makes all the difference in a child's life. He's a pillar of strength, support and discipline. His work is endless and, oftentimes, thankless. In the end, it shows in the sound, well-adjusted children he raises. He earns the affectionate term of "Daddy".

3 Things NOT To Do When You Cant Sleep

So, I cant sleep so what do I do when I cant sleep? I look up random shit. On tonights agenda "What NOT to do when you cant sleep".

Boring

Today I killed a spider.

Did more laundry.
Baked cookies from scratch.
Did dishes.
Checked the mail.
Called my mother who didn't answer anyways.
Figured out next months bills.

Attention Seeking Behavior In Adults

Personality disorder refers to a class of personality types and enduring behaviors associated with significant distress or disability, which appear to deviate from social expectations particularly in relating to other humans.
In personality disorders an attention seeker is part of cluster b also known as the dramatic. They are broken down into Antisocial • Borderline • Histrionic • Narcissistic.

EdenFantasys: Mini Cock -- realistic dildo

When I was searching for this toy I was dead set against rubber since my last two melted and smelled horrid. However for the custom request Id been asked to do I needed a dildo that was "realistic" and unfortunately rubber was the only option.

I ordered the small, but I guess I didn't pay close enough attention to this toy because it’s SMALL. Tiny... if I go into any more detail about how pathetic this toy is, its going to turn into a script for a small dick humiliation video.

If you're buying this toy for pleasure you are either fooling yourself or are tighter than an 80 year old virgin who's been doing kegel exercises since she was 18. DAMN

I really don't know why someone would use this on themselves but it definitely would be a great gag gift and I intend to use it in several small dick humiliation videos before I put it up on my ExtraLunchMoney store (I really don't want this pathetic excuse for a dildo in my house any longer than it has to be).

Plus my hatred of rubber toys holds true. I'm back on my search for a realistic cock to make my custom. Oh well >.< Maybe I’ll eventually find one that’s NOT rubber!

Feeling Like Crap For No Reason!

So I woke up yesterday morning with a super weird sickness. My head and throat are totally fine but my whole body is achy and sore. I was hoping I would be better by today but apparently not.

It feels so weird!

I'm wondering if its due to the fact that I've had jury duty all week and today is the first day I've had NOTHING. Maybe I should wear my business attire more often?

Monogamy Is A Problem

Monogamy is failing men. How do I know this? Have you ever cheated? How'd that turn out for you?
Very few women are "ok" with their boyfriend, parnter, or spouse screwing someone else. Which leads me to my original statement. It's not just failing them its  a "socially compelled sexual incarceration" that can lead to a life of anger and contempt according to a new study from  England's University of Winchester.

EdenFantasys Blog: Fishnet Stockings

I know what you're thinking... YAY! Another EdenFantasysblog. I have to admit, I'm slightly excited about this review as well. This month I'm reviewing some fishnet stockings I received. Now I know what you're thinking "Big deal, they're fishnets... I have fishnets" and so do I but these are so much better than any of the other fishnet stockings I own!

Listless

Tired, listless, hopeful, half content, half anxious, half thrilled, half idk. Right now so many things are changing in my world its got my stomach in 6 different types of knots. Normally when shit like this happens I go for a walk... try to clear my head. Unfortunately, it's been raining non-stop, plus I really didnt have time to do a walk.... too much to do.

Angry Might Just Be Hungry

Serotonin, the brain chemical linked to mood, plays a key role in regulating emotions such as aggression.

Serotonin, the nerve-signaling chemical targeted by many antidepressants, appears to keep aggressive social responses in check, Molly Crockett, a psychologist at the University of Cambridge and colleagues reported in the journal Science.

Girls

I have a serious problem with girls. Girls are the strangest creatures on this planet and science has proven this.

Rant

It bugs the hell out of me when girls assume that I've fucked their boyfriend. My list of guys NOT in porn that I've fucked is VERY small and those guys have NEVER been dating ANYONE I was aware of when I did fuck them.

Sex Education

Educated sex is the best kind of sex. A great deal of public schools believe that only abstinence should be taught. The people who preach this are obviously not looking at teen pregnancy or taking today’s teen for the over curious and analytical creatures they are.

Today’s teen understands they don't know everything about everything but they want to...

EdenFantasys: Night School - Sexy Costume

 

 Everyone loves a naughty school girl and while I was in Buffalo I shot a bunch of it! But one of my absolute favorite pieces was Night School - Sexy Costume from EdenFantasys.

Risky Sexual Places

Summertime is here.

That means the days are longer and you'll be staying up later and wearing fewer clothes.

It's a recipe for many loving couples to want to do something that they wouldn't think of doing during the cold winter months -- engage in risky sex.

Update

So I know that a while back I was talking about finishing my tattoo and after my time in Buffalo and getting a bunch of new pictures of my tattoo I've realized that my piece between my shoulder blades is finished. Best not to gild the lily.
I'm going to do another piece with a mouse but probably just not on my back. I'm not exactly sure what it will be or where I'll put it or when I'll put it there but that is the only new development I have come to since returning from Buffalo.
In other news, Caisee is talking about taking a step back from fetish and focusing more on her family. I adore her so I must support her decision.

EdenFantasys: The Mighty Marble

The mighty marble was the first vibrating cock ring I'd tried, I'd gotten one other as a gift with purchase from EdenFantasy which was defective so all we really got to play with was the ring. Not much of a winner there. It definitely fell into the standard connotation of a boring sex enhancer. After that experience I was slightly over the thrill of a cock ring, but then I saw this guy and that he had pieces sold separately to enhance the experience? I was definitely intrigued!

 

Love Cuffs -- Handcuffs

Yay! Another free gift from EdenFantasys.

When I saw that EdenFantasys was giving away handcuffs I couldn't say no, after all I've been meaning to replace mine for almost two years from when a crazy bitch decided to lie about her envolvement in the BDSM community and had a panic attack while wearing my pretty cuffs and snapped the links.

Yea, needless to say I'm not playing with her any more!

Plans & Changes

I've been thinking a lot about my tattoos recently since Caisee has decided that what she wants to do for her birthday. I'd made the same decision about my birthday, finishing my back piece but it just wasnt in the cards. So I've been thinking that for Caisee's birthday I'll get my back piece finished since she's correcting whats wrong with her tramp stamp.

Lace Skirtini

I was very disappointed with this Skirtini set but because the g-string that was supposed to come with this product wasn't included.

Shortly there after EdenFantasys pulled it from the shelves. I'm wondering if this was a common problem. The way it came to me was perfect for teasing videos because it was as if I were trying to hide under the transparent lace but just didn't manage it. Plus the skirt part didn't even cover my ass in the slightest but still had good flow when I shook my ass.

Check it out HERE

Love Taps

Love bites... but this lover leaves a bit of a sting!
I purchased this for a little bit of office "naughty". The sling shot action definately attracted me and said "hey! We can have some fun with this!"

Self Esteem & Happiness

It’s ok, go a head and pretend you have have any self esteem at all.

That makes almost no sense at all. Self-esteem is a term used in psychology to reflect a person's overall emotional evaluation of his or her own worth. It is a judgement of oneself as well as an attitude toward the self. Self-esteem encompasses beliefs (for example, "I am competent", "I am worthy") and emotions such as triumph, despair, pride and shame. What the speaker means is positive self-esteem. You cant pretend to have self-esteem, its a feeling. All creatures have feelings, but whether those feelings are positive or negative is what it comes down to.

EdenFantasys: Serika Tight Pussy

Yes, when I purchased the Serika tight pussy I was going through lesbian withdrawals and wanted to play with a pussy that wasn't mine. Happy?

Plus I have so many cock substitutes in my toy box I figured it was time I tried something on the other side.

White Polka Dot Microfiber and Lace G-string

I love panty shopping and shopping at EdenFantasys is definately one of my favorite things.

Why Do We Cheat?

It's an age old question that everyone has their own reason or excuse to why, but the truth of that matter is 45-55% of people admit to having cheated on a partner in the past. I know that I have... that how I lost my virginity. (Ouch, right?)

Qualities of an Excellent Friendship

Making friends as a child is difficult. Making friends as an adult is harder. Making friends with your partner after periods of emotional distance is the hardest thing of all. How do you fix it? It should be the same steps at every level right? So, what makes friendship? What makes an EXCELLENT friendship?

Learning Bondage

Depriving one sense, out of the five existing during a sexual play, may take you far away beyond the imaginary world of fantasies. Some people cant handle it. I cant stand to be deprived of sight, but some enjoy the mystery. The suspense! That's the most fun about fetish... learning limits and boundaries. You can truly explore who you are, so I highly recommend you try this type of play. At least once!

Good News

I got some great news today that i am seven layers of happy about. Scream from the roof top happy.

The Last Week

I have been SO freaking busy this week. I swear I'm burning my candle at three ends! I just moved into my new apartment and besides trying to get unpacked I have been working on keeping up with content and trying to get all of my B/G content caught up.

Caisee and I have also been talking about new content that we're going to be making and

YES! We are still taking requests and customs!

EdenFantasys: Low rise v-string panty

After the day I had I was FEDUP with my Victoria Secret thongs, they were like wearing granny panties but in a thong version! They creeped up my back and out of my jeans and then they looked like I was wearing granny panties but had a wedgie! So not sexy.

Thus like I always do I cried out for help to EdenFantasys and they were more than happy to give me a wide selection of thongs, g-strings and something I’d never heard of before....

A v-string!

Aftercare

Aftercare is the term used to describe any sort of care that is administered after a scene is over. What kind of aftercare is needed is different for different people. In the context of the sexual practice of BDSM, aftercare is the process of attending to one another after intense feelings of a physical or psychological nature relating to BDSM activities.

Happy New Year!

Fresh starts and new beginnings are flooding the internet via blogs and statuses. Turning a new leaf, starting over, or getting a leg up. The last year is either remembered fondly or tucked away like it never happened.  Folks follow trends, so come the 'New Year' that is their opportunity to try and change or improve. I guess in this sense I'm no different and I'm happy to report that big changes have already begun.