Three Reasons Women Should Use Sex Toys

1. Achieve Orgasm Faster and Easier with Vibrators

A study done in 2009 found that vibrators were the hottest selling sex toy. Do you know why? Vibrators do something that no human can. No, not just vibrate, there's more to it than that! They move faster, more consistently, and for longer periods of time than any fingers ever could. The average woman is able to reach orgasm quicker and easier with the high-frequency vibrations that most vibrators put off. Vibrators are versatile instruments, and can be used anywhere on the body to relax muscles, relieve strain, as well as provide precise stimulation for pleasure.

Vibrators may be the last consumer product group to come with absolutely no instructions or manuals from the manufacturers. At first blush you may think your vibrator doesn’t need a manual, but there are hundreds of different things to do with a vibrator, and if you’ve never used one a few pointers may be appreciated, so he's a couple of my thoughts.

• Time Required: For your first time give yourself a half hour or more
• Explore your vibrator: Get to know how it works. Play with the buttons and switches and find out how many speeds and settings it has. Wash your vibrator well before using it. If it isn’t waterproof, be careful not to get any water near the battery case. Check for sharp edges or seams (these can be easily filed down and made safe). Make sure the body of the vibrator isn’t coming apart from the battery pack and that all wires are solid and secure. If there are any flaws, return your vibrator before you use it.
• DIY (do it yourself): Even if you’re planning on using your vibrator with a partner, it’s a good idea to check it our by yourself first. You’ll feel less self-conscious and/or you can really concentrate on how it feels for you without being distracted (for better or worse) by a partner.  

 

2. G-spot orgasms

The G-Spot is an erogenous zone located on the forward vaginal wall, two to three inches from the vaginal opening. Alright, now NO ONE can say its a myth! G-spot orgasms are intense, and uniquely different from orgasms achieved through clitoral stimulation. The G-spot responds well to deep, rumbling vibrations and pressure. G-Spot toys feature a slight bend at the tip, allowing the user to easily locate and apply pressure and vibration.

I know what you're think! "Illianna! Where's my manual this time?" It's rather a short answer. Insert the vibrator 2 to 3 inches into the vagina and angle it up, toward your belly button, so it presses the upper vaginal wall. Stroke the vibrator in and out, pressing up on the outstroke. If you feel like you have to pee, you're doing it right. Some women even masturbate with full bladders because it helps.

 

3. Stronger Pussy Muscles through Kegels

First, and foremost for those that have no idea what I'm talking about. A kegal (exercise) is an exercise performed by a woman to strengthen the muscles with her pussy. It's not just for sexual health but urinary as well. Kegal excercises help strengthen your "hold it" muscles. The pelvic floor muscles lose their tone naturally with age, and following pregnancy.  Simple kegel exercises with weighted toys can strengthen the pelvic floor, and as an added benefit, strengthen these muscles lead to more intense orgasms, and stronger sensations for both partners. The pelvic floor muscles support the uterus, bladder and bowel. Keeping them strong will prevent your pelvic organs to descend and bulge into your vagina — a condition known as pelvic organ prolapse. The effects of pelvic organ prolapse range from uncomfortable pelvic pressure to leakage of urine. Pelvic organ prolapse isn't inevitable, however. Kegel exercises can help delay or even prevent pelvic organ prolapse and the related symptoms.