Friday, July 20, 2012


Over the years I've had many people look at me weird when I tell them "I shoot fetish". I might as well have said "I have sex with small children". Then I explain that a good portion of the fetish I do, is clothed. Their brows turn down and look at me like I've said "Look at me I can fly!"
Yes, there are many fetishes and some of them have nothing to do with sex and some of them have nothing to do with nudity!

There are many diverse kinds of fetishes, depending on the object being fetishized. Inanimate fetishes come in three varieties -- media, form and animate.

 In a media fetish, material is what is obsessed over. Media fetishes include rubber, leather, latex, and silk. These are most commonly clothed fetishes.

 With a form fetish, it's the shape of the object that has great significance. Stiletto heels, knee-high boots and lingerie fall into this category.
Some of these can be clothed too!

 Feet, hair, butts, breasts, and all that good stuff are also considered fetishes, but since these objects are human, they're called "animate" fetishes.

 People can turn anything into a fetish. There are different degrees of fetishism that go from mild to extreme.

A lot of things happen to people during their development to shape their brains one way or the other. Just because you have a fetish doesn't mean you’re a bad person because as I previously stated anything can be a fetish in this brave new world that's being created where watching porn and masturbating isn't taboo.

As more things are accepted the more things are challenged. I think humans NEED to have a dirty little secret. They NEED that naughty side.

However, because 'fetish' has become a catch phrase most don't understand the difference between a kink and a fetish, yes there is a huge difference. Most people that buy "fetish" clips don't have that as a fetish; they have it as a kink.

Fetish: psychology- any object or non-genital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation
Kink: Slang- bizarre or unconventional sexual preferences or behavior

The main difference between these two is the word "habitual" in fetish's definition. People with a fetish have to have that to get off. People with a kink like it, but don't NEED it.

But media doesn't care about that so any video created illustrating something that would fall into the kink or fetish category gets labeled as FETISH.

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