Saturday, December 8, 2012

Phone Sex


Phone sex can be fun whether you're enhacing a long distance relationship to call a 1-900 number (are phone sex lines still 1-900 numbers or am I just showing my age?).

I've dabbled in the phone sex world from boyfriends to complete strangers and I figured I'd give a few pointers to those who've never tried it. So call
your cell phone provider and up your minutes -- you better be prepared to be burning up some time this month.  Phone sex is good, clean dirty fun.
 

Get inspired!
If you're feeling even the least bit weird about dirty talk-- let go of your inhibitions. Once you're in the mood, you'll find yourself being able to tell your partner in dirty phone talk exactly what you want to hear -- and be able to respond to their dirty talk in
kind. Stay in the moment and enjoy yourself.

Get comfortable!
The best part about phone sex is that you can have it on a bad hair day, and still feel super sexy. Want to wear your sloppy sweats? Sure! Why not? No one will ever know that you haven't brushed your teeth. Phone sex is about painting a picture with your words. You can leave your slippers on and get it on -- as long as when you're asked to describe what you're wearing on
the phone, you say that you're wearing five inch stiletto heels, a G-string and a see-through teddy. You don't even have to own the naughty nightie you're describing, you just need to know how to describe it.

Get specific!
Phone sex is all in the dirty details. Just like a romance
writer, you need to set the scene for sex. Think about how you touch each other during foreplay. What makes your lover squirm? Make sure you talk about that in very specific and slow detail. Repeat, if necessary.

Get personal!
Phone sex is great if you have a shared intimate experience together. A night of passion that blew both of your minds. You can reconnect the intimacy of that moment through phone sex. Describe  your favorite night of passion step-by-step in delicious detail to your partner. Don't leave anything out.  Ask them questions about how they are pleasuring themselves. Do the same to yourself.

Get wild!
Let your imagination run wild. You can have phone sex
anywhere in the world together -- and you can do anything you'd like to each other (as long as you both find it a turn on.) Make sure you communicate
exactly what you're doing to each other. Take turns helping each other reach orgasm.  And then enjoy the afterglow of great phone sex.
 

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