Good Bye, Alexander's

As many know from social media I was recently fired from my club, Alexander's, where I've worked at for the last 4 years (5 years would have been exactly a month from when I was fired). I was fired for a comment I made to someone else on social media. My social media, my post, and the comment had really nothing to do with Alexander's but I'm probably getting ahead of myself.

Lets start at the beginning!

It's The Most Treacherous Time of The Year

A new year means that belts get tightened cause you're going to do better about your spending, your eating out or your working hard but in the land of sex work it is one of the most treacherous times of the year and not because the average strip club manager (or any manager if you want to be blunt) feels that if they're at work then you should be as well.

No, that's not the hazard I speak of; the hazard I speak of is when the money dries up and thus the majority that makes up sex work has too many thoughts and not enough spending cash. Which leaves the average to be quite a ... well, we already agreed to bluntness so we can call these women what they are... CUNTS.

Today's Decision

If you told me when I was 18 years old that there was more to life than money, I'd have rolled my eyes at you.

Sex Work Stigma & My Blessing

So many girls are talking about how they "came out" or were "forced out" to their family. I never really did. Both sides of my family are referred to as Wasps or at least they are committed to being perceived as such.

2018: Big Goals Big Obstacles

Being real for a moment 2016 was a rocky year and 2017 was about recovery as well as "licking wounds" so when 2018 popped its head in I knew that I wanted to make serious steps forward in both my personal and professional life.

I started this in December by joining the Camgirl Dollhouse Christmas bundle. For me, this was mostly a flop, although the exposure could have been what carried the month, but who knows for sure. My January flopped. Between the club being slow, my health not being where it needed to be and this overwhelming family drama that has just been circling every corner life has been tough.

January seemed to just go on and on and on while February seems to be zipping past.