Anal Sex

I've gotten a lot of requests for anal in my lifetime and I'm assuming you know about my career path so you can understand that is "more" than the "average" female. Anal sex regardless of amateur or professional level takes a lot of preparation. While sex takes almost nothing! A little lube here or a little spit there and you're in, proper hydration and you can go for an hour, no problem.

Anal sex is NOT like that. When you watch anal sex in a pornographic clip, anal seems like something you can just decide to do spontaneously, but real-life anal requires much more care and has to be taken a lot more slowly. It can take multiple rounds to reach a point of full insertion and pleasure for both partners. Inserting and pulling out because you found a "dry" spot, applying more lube and doing it again, but ... ope! The second sphincter didn't open or isn't lubed enough.

Alcohol

When the year started I told myself I would make smarter decisions when it comes to alcohol. Alcohol and I are not friends which some people don't understand that's because their life is so full of inhibitions restrictions and hindrances they cannot imagine someone whose life has very little of those.

The things that hinder restrict and control my behavior are things like manners social niceties rules laws and people's opinion. Removing mine is not normally in the average person's best interest.

No Trades Without Purpose

Today I was contacted by a photographer who wanted to do a trade session with me. Trade sessions for freelance models and photographers are fairly common to create art. I typically have no problem doing the shoot as long as there is a purpose. Magazine subscriptions, diverxity sets... and so on. I'm stingy with them when the photographer is vague about purpose and tends to validate himself repeatedly. You contacted me, expecting me to hand out my time and creativity  freely. Then make it a point that they were not "in the market" to hire a model. Well, you better have a grandeur design than I wanted to collaborate.

I'm so fucking annoyed with photographers that want TF* sessions but don't understand how that leaves the model vulnerable to being "stiffed".

Photographer & model show up for the shoot. Spend hours creating images, the average photographer does not give the model the images at the end of the shoot. He states that he will be in touch "in a few weeks". 

The photographer has no risk. He got what he put his time in for when he took the shot. His cartridge or card are full of what his time is worth and the model is trusting that she'll get something in return. 

Many photographers equate this to models not giving them credit when posting the images. You still got the images. Photographers don't credit models just as often as models don't credit photographers.

I refuse to do TF* sessions for this basic reason.  Trade sessions go to photographers I trust. 

Butt Holes!

Here we have another day where I'm completely confused by you humans. Yes, you humans. I, obviously, am not human because my reactions are so completely different than YOU HUMANS. Now, whether or not this is because I was raised by "conservative" people and learned about sex from health books, playboy and porno DVDs may have affected my outlook on the world.

Today I am going to discuss but holes. Yours, mine and maybe even societies! Who knows how far this rabbit hole may take us.

Good Bye, Alexander's

As many know from social media I was recently fired from my club, Alexander's, where I've worked at for the last 4 years (5 years would have been exactly a month from when I was fired). I was fired for a comment I made to someone else on social media. My social media, my post, and the comment had really nothing to do with Alexander's but I'm probably getting ahead of myself.

Lets start at the beginning!